Our hair has never just been hair. It has always been a statement—whether we wanted it to be or not.

For most of my career in corporate America, my natural hair was not acceptable in that environment. I didn’t fight it. I was scared. I watched what happened to Black women who didn’t conform—how they were labeled, overlooked, or quietly stalled. I learned the rules without them ever being written. So I kept the relaxer.
Not because I believed in it, but because I didn’t want to stand out. Because I wanted to move up. Because “professional” had a look—and it wasn’t mine. The damage to my hair was real, but the compromise ran deeper than that. I advanced, yes—but I always knew I was trading pieces of myself for acceptance.
In those same spaces, a white woman could walk in with a messy bun and be seen as effortless, polished, and professional. A Black woman wearing locs or braids? Unkempt. Distracting. A problem. Same workplace. Same expectations. Different rules.
My skills were solid. My performance was strong. But my hair still required approval.
It wasn’t until the natural hair movement—pushed forward by a younger generation—that those standards were finally challenged. They showed up fully as themselves and forced companies to confront the bias hiding behind the word professionalism. From that shift came real change: the CROWN Act and other movements that finally addressed the stereotypes and discrimination Black people had endured for decades.
That’s when the truth became impossible to ignore: Black hair has always been political because it challenges who gets to define professionalism, respectability, and worth. Our hair has been regulated, judged, and policed—not because it’s unkempt, but because it refuses to assimilate.
Herbs & Oils Haircare Essentials was built as a refusal. A refusal to believe that healthy hair needs permission. A refusal to compromise identity for acceptance. A belief that our crowns don’t need to be reshaped to belong.
Our hair isn’t unprofessional.
It’s uncompromising.
It’s about reclaiming it.
We build our formulas the way our ancestors did:
✔ Rooted in nature
✔ Backed by intention
✔ Made for real hair, real people, real life
No corporate fluff. No watered-down blends.
Just what works.
When natural hair is labeled unprofessional, it’s not about standards—it’s about control. It’s about forcing assimilation. It’s about deciding who looks like leadership and who doesn’t before a word is ever spoken.
And when those standards are baked into workplace policies, school rules, and corporate culture, they quietly reinforce a system that says:
“You can be here—but only if you don’t look too much like yourself.”
That’s not inclusion. That’s conditional access.
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